about lost...

"you have to give up the life you've planned to find the life that's waiting for you...
all our lives we grow by giving up things, by lost and  moving on, big things, little ones,
how we handle those losses really defines who we are...."
nora walker

growing up...

we can't go backwards...
it's time...

"pair of star-cross'd lovers"
who saved each other's lives...

change...

When we say things like: "people don't change", it drives scientist crazy...because change is literally the only constant in all of science. Energy, matter...it's always changing, morphing, merging, growing, dying. It's the way people try not to change that is unnatural, the way we cling to what things were instead of letting them to be what they are, the way we cling into old memories instead of forming new ones, the way we insist on believing despite every scientific indication that anything in this lifetime is permanent. Change is constant. How we experience change, thats up to us... it can feel like death or it can feel like a second chance at life. If we open our fingers, loosen our grips, go with it, it can be like a pure adrenaline. Like at any moment, we can have another chance at life. Like at any moment, we can be born all over again. - Meredith Grey